[I]t's often hard for a new Domme, or really the uninitiated in general, to separate the essence of domination, power, and control from the image one often has of a "dominatrix".
[W]e live in a culture that is so abhorrently, pathetically ashamed of our relationship to erotic media... that it promotes a furtive, skeevy, back-alley way of dealing with the content in the first place.
The one thing I learned very quickly about 50 Shades of Grey... is that it's bad. Really bad. Just incredibly really very bad. I mean it. Sincerely poor writing.
There's nothing wrong with me or the way I like to have sex. And it feels good to finally be able to say that.